Thursday, March 26, 2009

shock!!

princess just came home.

she pulled down her pants & showed me e 2 red marks on her tiny leg. my dear sil beat her using a wooden stick & left behind these 2 fierce marks. my maid told me its because princess kept banging on the toilet door. just like that, she got these marks. my heart broke...

it must be very painful... the marks reminds me of the rattan marks i get from the beating i received when i was young. because of what happened to me, i will not allow any rattan stick enter my house. EVER!

i wasnt told of the beating, no explaination given, nothing. i wonder what other things happened & i wasnt aware (other than she went on a short trip to sawadika-land & HE brought her downstairs w/o my knowing & my approval, despite she gave me her words that it will not happened again)....

i cant scold her, i cant reprimand her, i cant ask her.... i can only vent here...

9:04 PM

Monday, March 23, 2009

my sick baby..

princess is finally down wif cough & fever after several minor flu (minor = today running rose, night take medi, next day recover). she's been having slight cough since last morning.

however, things worsen after e sat buffet dinnner wif SIL. as usual, princess pester for 'one-sip' only soft drink. even with my strong protest, king gave in to her. knowing her, her 'one-sip' only will ever end. so, whole night she had several 'one-sip'. next we had ice-cream for dessert, of course, she asked for 'one-bite' only. straight away, i said cannot. but everyone gave me the 'yr-mummy-say-cannot-leh' kind of look so i gave in n say ok to 'one-bite' only. but still it ended up with 3 bites.

true enuff, reached home, princess starts coughing wif phlegm. jia lat lor, there goes my night sleep.

apparently, princess has been eating alot of heaty food like peanuts at her ah gong hse, never control & now cough. but if its becoz of me, i sure kena from king. how fair is life....

anyway, total damage today $54/- for 4 btls of coloured 'water' x 2 sets

reached home, i told king tt if she did not get well tmr morning, she not gg over. guess wat? he gave me a you-siao-ar look. so wats wrong wif me wanting to stay home n look after my sick child? oh! maybe he's not happy cos e maid is not gg over to help tt side?? haaa maybe i m really siao...

11:18 PM

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

just gotten home, yet to shower, yet to have my dinner all becos i must pen down what happened less than 1/2hr ago.

on my way home, i dropped by punggol plaza to change a hair brush which i bought 2 days ago but is spoil (the 'teeth' part came off, cannot fix back to its base).

Reader, note i bought the brush from
THE ONLY HAIR ACCESSORIES SHOP AT LEVEL 1.

i went up to the auntie at cashier counter.


(note the following conversation is in mandarin)


ME:
i bought this 2 days ago but is spoil, i want to change


AUNTIE:
huh comb ar cannot change one


ME:
but i bought from here n its new n totally cannot use y cannot change?


AUNTIE:
we pack (into plastic) all the comb ourselves & if is spoil we will know.
if we pack & sell, tt means its not spoil. when u buy?


note: all this while, she is NOT looking at me, she just keep doing her things


ME:
2 days ago. spoil y cannot change
(note: me getting angry but haven raise my voice)


AUNTIE:
2 days ar, so long liao
(hello!!! monday night buy, wed change VERY LONG LEH??)
comb few cents only we dun change & we dunno how u use


ME:
xiao jie!
(damn, i shld hv called her AUNTIE instead)
this is not s few cents leh, its $1.60 hor


AUNTIE:
den u buy from who, u wait for the salesgirl come & u ask her


ME:
how many ppl work here


AUNTIE:
4


ME:
do u expect me to wait for all 4 to come to work??


halfway a customer wants to make payment,
i left her & went to the comb section &
took from e rack exactly the same one
as i bought n bring to counter,
still trying to convince her tt i bought it here.


ME:
auntie this is the same as the one i bought (but spoil) so confirm
I BOUGHT FROM HERE!!


AUNTIE:
~still singing 'comb cannot change blar blar blar
& at e same time open the one i got from e rack.
she tried the 'teeth' part to see it come out, did not.
den she fixed my faulty one n try rubbing a few time on her palm.
e 'teeth' no drop & she gave me the WHERE-GOT-SPOIL look~


ME:
if you can comb yr hair & it did not drop,
i wont change


AUNTIE:
~still rubbing the brush & IT DROP HAAAA!!~


ME:
~gave her the I-TOLD-YOU-SO look~


AUNTIE:
~took the new one, rub on her palm
& try to pry the 'teeth' to test. din drop~


ME:
if you use this comb yr hair & it will drop,
i will not change.


AUNTIE:
~try the new brush again, still ok, no drop.
w/o saying anything, she SLAP the brush on the counter~


note: all this while she is still NOT looking at me


ME:
does this mean u let me change?


AUNTIE:
aiya take lah take lah


ME:
u sure now u let me change?
~took the brush keep into my bag~
where got ppl buy thing, spoil cannot change one??
~angry, walk away~



my blood is still boiling even as i m typing.


very unresonable leh!!!


7:55 PM


something i must jot down

on 7 march 09, princess took off her diaper & declare tt she's not going to wear diaper to bed!! note hor, is she request herself, not me ar..

as precaution, i laid extra mattress protector at her side of the bed. taught her what to do if she needs to she-she. by e time she's ready to sleep, we'v practised several times, she's to wake me up n say 'mummy i wan sheshe'

The whole night, NO ACCIDENT!!!

happy!!

Been a couple of weeks now, NO ACCIDENT AT NIGHT!!my princess has stepped into another milestone!! & e queen will be able to save a couple of dollars on diaper.
I m so proud of my princess!!

2:23 PM